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Crip Dyke's avatar

Mom of a Dysphoric Kid is blocked and banned.

I've written about them before without naming names, but for those curious, MoaDK was one of three people spamming me with multiple responses over a short period of time that prompted this:

https://substack.com/profile/13992719-crip-dyke/note/c-59455521

If you, MoaDK, are reading this, a large part of why I banned you was for spamming. I let people with whom I vehemently disagree comment, but 6 comments so quickly that no one else has a chance to say anything? No. That's not conversing, that's monologuing. You're trying to yell loud enough and long enough to dominate the conversation. That's not welcome here.

If you're someone who disagrees with me but is NOT MoaDK, another reason that I blocked and banned them so quickly was that I felt that in my previous reading there was literally zero chance that MoaDK would or even could change their mind about anything. Again, this goes to lecturing vs discussing, dialoguing vs monologuing.

I love to host smart people disagreeing with me, but if you do, you're going to have to show that you can change your mind if you want someone to read what you write with the same level of open respect. You're also going to have to show some engagement with what's written in the post or note on which you're commenting. This means more than putting up a link that you think disproves something I've said. You need to accurately summarize my position so I know you understood it, then you need to accurately summarize your source, and then you need to use reasonable argument to show how the information from your source makes my argument less likely to be true.

If you can do that, you're welcome here despite our disagreements. If you can't, you have your own blog on which to post 6 cut-and-paste diatribes in 6 minutes. Don't use mine.

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SethTriggs's avatar

Every one of these innocent children lost is a stain on society.

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